Curse Of Beauty vs Sex

Be honest !

I’m not a fan of playing with people’s emotions and that irks me out. Don’t tell a person you like them if you definitely know that you want not a thing out of them.No fancy glamour, Just down to earth honesty and think that once it has to do with one’s emotions then they to be treated with care..

Everyone likes people who are candid in their approach. If you approach a person and be honest with them about the relationship you want to have, don’t you think it would be far guilt free ? Its like telling a person to drive with a seat belt but really its their decision if they want to drive with or without one and in the end they have the consequences to face.

Relationship or just sex ?

I am tired of my female friends complaining to me about them not getting in a relationship with the person they are having sex with. Girls, no one told you not to get your precedency straight. You weren’t deceived to lay down on bed of roses. Its either you want sex or you want a relation. A part of choosing sex only means you have to control not getting attached. Because frankly that shit hurts like a bitch. But isn’t that one of the problems with some of us females ? Putting others emotions over ours. Before having to go through all the anxiety, know what you want before you jump the gun. #Jus’Saying . We’re all young and wild but that doesn’t mean we think from our pants. Stand up for yourself ! Stand up for what you want and make your decision. Whatever you decide you will have it to live with, if its a good decision then you can enjoy but if its bad.. Sadly, that’s what you choose for thyself .

#100HappyDays

 

Am I born and raised just to get married?

Quite honestly, I wasn’t intending to write this but this justhappened and I found myself scribbling. This thought first came intomy mind when I got up on Saturday morning and logged on to my Face bookand happen to find a post from one of the political leader on womenempowerment. Am I born and raised just to get married? All thateducation meant nothing to me? Why is ultimate goal of girls parentsis to see their daughter walking down the isle and not seeing herflying with rainbow career.

Is marriage really so important in our society that we need to give up on who we are born to be. Definitely we not here as panel of guest to talk about life roles rainbow and all the Gyaan attached to it but just to find what is your calling in life instead of trying to be what someone else want us to be. I’m proud to be women of today who loves her feminine side and power god has given me. I’m not an anti – marriage but yeah at the same time I like to be independent. Society is evolving, women are becoming economically independent, but still I see well educated smart woman giving up on their dreams, expensive education abroad and get hitched for the sake of their parents, huh ? Yes marriage is not every ones cup of tea specially when you have to give up on your dreams. Our orthodox society will always frown on single young women. Change starts from within and our own house. We are still in that medieval era where science has progressed but society is still in 1920 era. Society can manage with egoistic single women roaming around but not with broken families everywhere, so stay single if you apprehensive, you would save a lot of lives.

#BeTheChange.

#BeTheChange

Sex sex and more sex…….

What is this crazy thing happening????; corridor is buzzing ,with the ohh aah and ouch; did he really ?? don’t tell me …… true ? ?what???????? how come!!!! Nitin …ohh!! come on now…yes he did it; so what????? ..let the court decide; how to go about this.The evil is not in sex the real evil is; how we see or perceive it. There is only two energies, we have been gifted with and that is; to create and destroy….and sex enables us to create thats the reason I am breathing in this world. WE all owe our existence to this wonderful thing called “sex”.
We need to analyse the root from where this perversion has sipped in……. we need to understand and learn about sex As; Indian civilisation always Celebrated Sex ..look at khajuraho, Ajanta ellora; kamasutra “the only manual for sex” was conceived in this soil.
The real perversion percolated when our society started imposing “victorian morality”.India in past; always “celebrated Sex”. We worshiped, in the form of shiva’s “linga””and paravati’s “yoni. Yes!!!!! it’s nothing; but a penis and vagina . which we worship every day by offering milk and fruits. The real message behind this is “eat healthy and Stay potent”…its not that; by worshipping that linga, shiva will come on earth and start a rescue operation . We need to apply our brain, talk to our kids, friend and understand its importance . But hell… “no”… we will bash a guy who says; by eating chowmein or chau-chau aur mau-mau’s, will make one rapist.
And ; this sexual degeneration is no more a “male bastion” or to simply put it’s no more “gender specific”. Go on net, search for “sex mate” or sex chat, you will know; women are as sexually aggressive as any male. Its just that they only open when there is no fear of getting identified. its no more a “batti bujhao” or “have a glass of milk syndrome”. Its on viagra today, performance counts, marriages shatter, life takes a you turn, if one can’t make their partner happy in bed ……. “crime of passion” is at all time high, “libido is more volatile than our stock market”. its a time we need to understand and accept sex as a life giving energy not as demon who haunts in wet dream.